Sunday, May 22, 2011

Goals I want to achieve by the end of my semester in Rome:


Personal Goal:
My goal is to develop confidence and self-reliance. I also hope to explore everything I can in Europe and to always try new things. I also hope to broaden my world understanding and perspective so that when I return home I will have a better outlook on cultures and daily life. I also hope to learn Italian and to be able to hold a conversation by the time I leave Italy.

Professional Goal:
            One professional goal I have is to become aware of how my intended profession may be viewed or practiced differently in different cultural contexts. I also hope to develop the skills that employers seek such as cross-cultural communication skills and cultural awareness.

Academic Goal:
I would like to grow intellectually by being exposed to knowledge, concepts, and experiences that reflect different cultural frames. I also hope to stimulate my cross-cultural, international and comparative learning in my classrooms. Furthermore, I hope to achieve all A’s in my courses this semester.

Cultural Goal:
One of my cultural goals is to interact with people from Italy and to better understand the Italian culture. I also hope to gain a fresh perspective on my own cultural background and a new appreciation for the U.S.

Identify a strategy for meeting these goals?
In order to meet these goals I will have to remain motivated, enthusiastic and eager to learn. Additionally, I will try to share my goals with three key people. I think that finding supportive and positive people will help me stay motivated in achieving my goals. Another strategy that I think will be helpful in meeting my goals is to create a measureable action plan. Although it may be difficult, I can attempt to measure my goals based on a ranking system of how I feel regarding my progress towards reaching my goals. I can also measure my goals based on time and how long I spend on the goal.

What resources will I need?
I will need teachers to recommend places and give me cultural tips that I would not be able to understand on my own. In order to improve my Italian the best resources will be my teachers at AUR and practice. My professors will be able to assist and guide me in learning the language. They will also be there if I have any questions of if I am confused. Practicing the language in real life situations will help me become more proficient.

Who will hold you accountable?
I will be the one to hold myself accountable for meeting my goals. I will make it a priority of mine to check in with myself every few weeks to make sure that I have made some sort of progress towards reaching my goals. I will base my development and growth on how I feel and the experiences I have had. Although I have family members and friends to guide me on my journey, reaching my goals is ultimately in my hands. I will have to be responsible for accomplishing what I have set out to achieve.


Who can support or encourage you to meet your goals?

My friends, family and teachers at the American University of Rome can help me meet my goals. Since I will be sharing my goals with a few close people they will be able to motivate me to be more adventurous, try new things or even encourage me to interact with the local Italians. Also my cross-cultural class has already encouraged me to meet many of my goals. Our teacher Edgar does a good job of taking us outside the classroom and putting us in situations where we are forced to interact with Italian people.  I will tell Edgar some of my goals so that when we are in real life situations, he can encourage me to try harder to communicate with the locals.

What will motivate you?
My passion and drive for accomplishing my goals will keep me motivated.  I also keep in mind how rewarding it will be if I can say that I accomplished all four goals I set out to achieve. I also know that by attaining these goals I will definitely face some challenges and difficulties. However, I understand that with these difficulties come stories that I can share with friends and family back at home as well as memories that will remain with me for a lifetime. These experiences that coincide with achieving my goals are also motivating factors.

What are the steps you can take to meet your goal?
I need to take small steps to achieve my goals. In order to become more confident and self-reliant I need to make myself vulnerable in unfamiliar situations. The more times this occurs the closer I will be to meeting my goals. In order to become more proficient in Italian language and culture I need to attend class regularly, ask questions and immerse myself in conversations with Italians. All of these goals require time and patience.

How will you know when your goal has been reached?
It is hard to determine if your goal has ever been reached, but I think the way I will know is based off how I feel. If I am pleased with my progress and my newly acquired knowledge, if I feel more confident and if I feel more culturally aware I believe those are all good indicators of my goals being reached. 

Thoughts about departing


As the days dwindle down before my flight back home to New Jersey, I am filled with this bittersweet feeling that is so hard to describe unless you were in my position. I cannot explain how excited I am to see my family, my dog, and my friends, take a long hot shower and enjoy the things I love about home. But, at the same time there is a huge part of me that does not want to leave. I am constantly reflecting upon my time abroad and am truly amazed how much I have learned and experienced as well as all the places and amazing things I have seen. I can wholeheartedly say that studying abroad has changed me outlook on just about…everything. I have become so much more independent and have such a strong drive and passion for life. Being immersed in a foreign culture that speaks a different language completely has shaped my personality and has given me the best life lessons and memories that I will remember forever.
Once I am home I know that I am going to miss how much Rome, as a city has to offer. After being here for four months I still cannot believe how much there is to explore and learn within this beautiful historical center. I am sure that when I go home I am going to be looking for fun adventures to embark on to keep me occupied. Being abroad made me gain a totally new insight on what respect really is. By studying abroad I have completely expanded my horizons and have learned to not only embrace but to also admire the culture here in Rome. I plan to take this new level of respect back to Maryland and really utilize my new sense of patience and understanding that I have acquired. Furthermore, abroad has made me enjoy the simple things in life. I think this is something that people need a little more of this in their lives. Back at home the lifestyle is so crazed and fast paced that people do not have time to really reflect on things. I hope to reopen my family and friends eyes and allow them to live through my experiences abroad. All in all, I would recommend anyone to study abroad. It is a once in a lifetime experience that you will never forget!


Reaction to Venice Carnival

Thousands of tourists flock to Venice to see and take park in its magnificent carnival; I was fortunate to be one of those many tourists this past weekend. Words cannot explain how beautiful and alive the city was, but I will try. People walked around in elaborate, fancy dress and the scenery was so magical. The Venetian masks stared at you from every alleyway and the canals glistened in the sunlight. This festival really provided me with insight into another cultures traditions and cultural roots. Wearing masks has always been more than just simple fun for the Venetians. I learned in my Italian culture class, prior to leaving for my trip, that wearing a mask in Venice allowed you to take do things you would not be able to do otherwise. For example, one could gable without being caught and the poor could mask their poverty and blend in with the elite. The masks created unity in social class and it was a time for people to come together regardless of class and power. I also learned in my class that the masks date back to the sixteenth century and represent characters from the professional actors in Commedia dell’ Arte, which was a form of improvisational theater.
          
  I witnessed many masquerades and parades in St. Mark’s Square and watched children in costumes liter the streets and piazzas with confetti and silly string. As we made our way into St. Mark’s square I could not believe what I saw. The liveliness of the crowd, colorful scenery, and elaborate costumes put me in such good spirits. I felt proud to experience a part of the Venetian culture that is so special and significant to them. In St. Mark’s square we watched street-artists and were entertained by singers with music from their guitars. All of my friends and I did our best to blend in and participate in the Venetian culture by buying masks and getting our faces painted. I also was able to try black cuttlefish, which is a traditional Venetian dish consisting of pasta covered with black sauce from the ink sac of a cuttlefish. Although I was hesitant to try this at first I was so happy that I did because it was amazing!
           
Another concept that was so surreal to me was the fact that we were completely surrounded by water. Having always wanted to go on a gondola ride I made it a must-do while in Venice. Our gondolier gave us such a wonderful experience as he took us through the canals and pointed out sights along the way such as the Ponte di Rialto, which is the most popular bridge in Venice. After participating in Venice’s carnival I felt an enhanced feeling of belonging to the Italian culture, which I will remember and cherish for many years to come.





Movie Reaction


After watching The Golden Door (Nuovomondo) I really found a new appreciation for Italian films. This film really opened my eyes to the history of Italian immigrants into America. The story is set at the beginning of the 20th century in Sicily. Salvatore, a very poor farmer, and his family immigrate to the US. Though, before the family boards the boat to America they meet an Englishwomen named Lucy. Lucy asks Salvatore to marry her in order for her to enter America.  
The trip to the boat, aboard the boat and at Ellis Island is one of wonder and hope and has very little dialogue. The director, Emanuele Crialese, does a fantastic job illustrating the tough passage to the new world. The middle section of the film is devoted to the long voyage to the U.S. Most immigration films I have seen show ten minutes of people in the third-class section becoming seasick, and then show us the Statue of Liberty, but not this movie. I got a sense for life below decks and ironically you never actually see the statue of liberty in this film. The risks associated with leaving everything behind is also clearly depicted throughout the movie. I never really understood the strict rules and harsh treatment that the immigrants had to face on Ellis Island until I saw this movie.
While watching the movie it made me think of my grandpa who made this exact journey from Sicily to America through Ellis Island. I pictured my grandfather in the place of the actors and had a much clearer idea of the primitive living conditions in Sicily that motivated him to leave home. Furthermore, I became aware of the cramped weeks he spent aboard a boat and the hardships he had to face. The director is so precise in his depictions and told such an engaging story that I was in turn greatly moved. All in all, I would highly recommend this movie. I will be sure to tell my grandfather about this film, because I know he will be very touched by this film.


Bittersweet Departure

As my time in Rome comes to an end I find myself constantly reminiscing. This pas weekend spent in Cinque Terre, was one of my favorite trips. After 7 hours of hiking through 5 towns we finally arrived in Monto Rosso where we spent the night indulging in great seafood and wine and the following day relaxing on the beach. This week in Rome has been stressful with finals to say the least, but I have been making sure to go to all my favorite places for that one last time. I can not wait for Friday, for my finals to be over, to out to our last dinner, and to then grab a bottle of wine and frolic around the city to the Trevi Fountain, the Spanish Steps, the Pantheon, Piazza Navona. I can not believe how fast time has gone and Rome truly has a special place in my heart <3




Beach in Monterosso

Piazza Navona (one of my favorite places)

Veranza, one of the 5 towns

Czech it Out!

Prague was unreal. What other place in the world can you go to where you feel like you have stepped into a fairytale land? With absolutely no idea what to expect, I was completely taken away at all the things I saw. Whether I was crossing the Charles Bridge, taking pictures in front of the Lennon Wall, or exploring the Castle, I could not get over how magical Prague was. And...not to mention there was an Easter Fair going on that was filled with food and music: sweet cinnamon sugar rolls, fried cheese, fried dough, and candy! If all that was not enough to convince you to go to Prague, we also went to a 5 story club where each floor has a different music genre, including "black music" (bizarre?) Friday night we went to an 80s/90s club called Lucerna where they streamed music videos of Grease and Bon Jovi throughout the entire club. It was a huge sing-along dance party, what's not to love about that?! I also had my first piece of sushi since January, Starbucks, and Mexican food. Although the switch up of food was a great break when I returned to Rome yesterday and went out to dinner for Kelly's birthday I was happy to be back home. Home Sweet Roma!


















Oh, and I forgot to mention...these disgusting fish ate at my feet. Gross? Yes, but at least now my feet are so soft!

Amalfi Coast to French Riviera

Wow, these past two weeks have really flown by... which only means that the next 4 weeks are going to go by even faster (so scary)! The Amalfi coast two weekends ago and the French Riviera last weekend were two trips that I will never forget. I can not believe the beauty that is in these two places. While I was at the Amalfi I took a boat ride around the entire Island of Capri, walked around the beautiful town in Sorrento, went in the Blue Grotto, had too much lemoncello, and relaxed on the beach in Positano. Positano was by far my favorite place in the Amalfi. The town embedded in the mountains, with its black sand beaches was so beautiful that when it was time to leave I was in pure denial. And, although it took me nearly 15 minutes to jump off the top of a 35 foot cliff, I finally gathered some courage and did it!



Before entering the Blue Grotto
In the Blue Grotto <3


Lemoncello and lemon chocolates = yum!

Took the chair lift up to the top of Anacapri

Positano

Right before I jumped 35 ft off a cliff, call me crazy... I know




The weekend flew by and a few days and 10 hour bus ride later I was in the French Riviera. We stayed in Nice, which i instantly fell in love with. And although my obsession with fresh markets all over Europe is a bit extreme, anyone would have to agree that the fresh flower and fresh fruit market in Nice, is amazing! The next day we headed to Monoco were I felt like an outsider looking in on such a lavish and luxorious lifestyle. The Bentleys and Rolls Royces parked in front of the Monte Carlo Casino where enough to make me a little intimated before entering. With some encouragement from my friends I played my first slot ever, and with no surprise lost within 30 seconds. We also got to go to Eze, where we climbed to the top of the medieval village to see the exotic gardens and the view of the entire French Riviera. Before departing home, we traveled to Antibes and spent a few much needed hours of relaxation on the beach there. I am off to prague tomorrow, I am so excited to finally see this fairy-tale-like place that everyone raves about. Look out for another post soon!

The streets of Nice, France


The beautiful yachts in Monoco


Monte Carlo Casino

View from the exotic gardens in Eze, an old medieval village


Rome becoming home...

As the weeks go by, I seem to love Rome more and more it really is beginning to feel like home. It amazes me that after being in Rome all this time there are still so many places that I have on my “to do” of places to eat and things to see before I leave. This week I tackled three things on my list. Thanks to this amazing spring weather, my friends and I decided to head to the closest beach called Ostia Lido. Seeing the ocean, eating coconuts, and roasting in the sun was the perfect way to celebrate the oncoming of this beautiful weather. Kelly, Jenny, Laurie and I decided to head to Villa Pamphilla which is a beautiful park that I have been wanting to explore. Not only was it gigantic, but the relaxation amongst the local Roman’s picnicking and bike riding made me appreciate all the beauty that Rome has to offer. Later that night I checked off the third thing on my to do list: A ROMA SOCCER GAME! I felt completely culturally immersed as I sat next to Romans screaming the AS Roma chants and watching beer bottles being thrown at the opposing fans. It was crazy to say the least, but sipping on a Peroni and watching the game was the perfect ending to an unforgettable, low-key weekend in Rome.



Villa Pamphilli

Ostia Lido

Go Roma! 
Just some fresh coconuts, no big deal.

Picnic at Villa Pamphilli ( next on my "to do" list)


Montepulciano

It is hard to describe the beauty that I just witnessed in Tuscany last week. The rolling hills, and stunning views was such a relief from the hustle and bustle of Rome. Don’t get me wrong my obsession with Rome grows everyday, but getting that fresh air in the vineyards was much needed. Thanks to Jenny we had our own private wine tour with a very knowledgeable women named Alessandra. We were all actually obsessed with her. She took us to the town of Montepulciano, which is the most beautiful town encircled by walls and filled with churches and vineyards. Inside the walls the winding streets gave a Medieval/Renaissance vibe. The town is known for its Vino Nobile red wine and Alesandra took us to taste them at the Contucci Estate. I instantly fell in love with Adamo, who took such pride in showing us around the 1,000-year-old winery. Thinking about the lunch that Alesandra took us too makes me want to go back to Montepulciano in and of it self. Everything was freshly made on the farm that the restaurant was on. We got to go down stairs and see the huge wine barrels and the meats hanging form the ceiling. At lunch we ate all traditional Tuscan cuisine, including the most amazing Tuscan soup ( to die for)! We then headed to a little town called Pienza, where the best Pecorino in the area is produced from the unique sheep that are located there. Of course, Alessandra had the hook up and we went to her friend’s pecorino shop on a farm where we got to test all different kinds of pecorino cheese. With my newfound love for pecorino I couldn’t resist buying some and a special apple, pear and vanilla jam to compliment it! I could go on and on about how much I loved Tuscany, I honestly did not want to leave when the day came to an end. The one thing I have to look forward to is sharing the reserve wine I bought from Contucci and the cheese to share with my family and Dylan when they arrive tomorrow! 



Piazza Grande in Montepulciano


1000 year old Contucci Winery

Alessandra and Adamo (cutest man alive)


Wine Tasting :)








Celebrating the 150th Unification of Italy with laundry!








View from the town of Pienza